Ben couldn't get laid in a woman's prison.......That creepy dude must have used a jedi mind trick to get some woman pregnant.
Women are attracted to power more than looks. Doesn't matter how creepy you are... if you have power women will be attracted to you.
As evidence may I present to you Mr. Bill Gates 
Ben is a little goofy, but I for one find him quite attractive. Goober has it pretty much right. It may not be power per se, but the confidence. When he was getting all flustered with Juliet last night...not attractive.
Say WHAAAT? Beann, weren't you the one defending Sawyer's manly ways and good looks in another thread??? No way you put these two in the same bag!
In any case, Ben is NOT attractive, IN NO WAY. Funny little face and the physique of a retired clown!
BTW, the thing with Bill Gates is money, not power. For that much money, I'd date Harpers' mole!